encouragement · Fear

When We Try to Do it All

I read The Cat in the Hat by Dr. Seuss around the age of five. Naturally, the book found its way into our library when our oldest child started reading. In this story, a Cat in a large hat (hence the title) shows up to entertain two children who are home alone on a rainy day. Along with his cohorts, Thing 1 and Thing 2, he manages to turn the house upside down, much to the anxiety of a pet fish and, ultimately, the children.

The best children’s books are the ones that teach you lessons even as an adult, and The Cat in the Hat is no exception. Read the following excerpt:

“Look at me!
Look at me!
Look at me NOW!
It is fun to have fun
But you have to know how
I can hold up the cup
And the milk and the cake!
I can hold up these books!
And the fish on the rake!
I can hold up the ship
And a little toy man!
And look! With my tail
I can hold a red fan!
I can fan with the fan
As I hop on the ball!
But that is not all.
Oh, no.
That is not all…”

(from The Cat in the Hat by Dr. Seuss)

Cat in the Hat

Not only does this Cat take great pride in all the things he can manage, but he craves the children’s attention.

The drive to be seen and admired is an ageless problem. Ambition and prominence have been the unquenchable desire of men since time began. In our modern selfie culture we post the best parts of ourselves so others will perceive that we successfully “juggle it all” while inserting just enough self-deprecation to be “real.”

There is an unspoken expectation that we should have a picture-perfect family, run an innovative home-based enterprise, be ultra-involved in our kids activities, teach bible class, and practice hospitality from our spotless home. And, lest we forget, we should have an 800 credit score, a thriving retirement fund, no debt, and tithe exactly ten percent. All this is to be handled while eating gluten-free gourmet and hitting up the gym.

Look at us now!
It is fun to have fun, but you have to know how!

Surely, we too can balance the proverbial cake on our head?

We reach for one more thing and say, “But that is not all we can do, oh no, that is not all…”

Cat in the Hat 2

“That is what the cat said…
Then he fell on his head!
He came down with a bump
From up there on the ball.
And Sally and I,
We saw ALL the things fall!

We control little, but pride leads us to believe we control much. This pride inevitably leads to disaster.

Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.

~ Prov. 16.18, ESV

We have been raised in a society that values self-determination, ambition, and hustle—an attitude handed down to us through over two centuries of American success stories. I am currently in the middle of Team of Rivals by Doris Kearns Goodwin, documenting the achievements and failures of Abraham Lincoln, Salmon P. Chase, Edward Bates, and William H. Seward. Their ambitions drove them to great heights, but also plunged them into depths of disappointment. 200 years have passed and we still deal with the same issues.

Any failure, no matter how insignificant leads us to self-blame or blame-shiftingThe truth is far more complex. 

For starters, we are all imperfect, and naturally fall short from time to time. Any failing of any human can easily be blamed on some “fatal flaw.”

At the same time, there are moments in life when “all the things fall,” regardless of our cat-like reflexes. These incidents serve as tangible reminders of how little actually rests in our control. We can’t always have eight hours of quality sleep, especially with a newborn baby in the house. We can’t always determine our state of health—cancer, car accidents, and outbreaks happen. We can’t always control our financial circumstances—markets crash, businesses close, and banks fail. The catastrophes of 2017—the Vegas massacre, Hurricanes Harvey and Maria, the fires in Montana and California, and the earthquakes in Mexico—are prime examples of things beyond our manipulation.

The Israelites—particularly their kings—give us examples of men who leaned on God when times were tough, praised Him when things went well, and end up crediting themselves. Instead of turning the hearts of the people toward God, they tried to draw attention to themselves.

Their pride always led to a disastrous fall.

Instead of trying to be expert jugglers, why don’t we start evaluating our priorities and eliminating the superfluous?

Instead of basking in our strengths, why don’t we ask God to help us with our weakness?

Instead of saying, “Look at me,” why don’t we start saying, “Look at Jesus.” 

Paul, writing to the Christians at Corinth, said it best:

For we dare not class ourselves or compare ourselves with those who commend themselves. But they, measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise. We, however, will not boast beyond measure, but within the limits of the sphere which God appointed us—a sphere which especially includes you. For we are not overextending ourselves (as though our authority did not extend to you), for it was to you that we came with the gospel of Christ;  not boasting of things beyond measure, that is, in other men’s labors, but having hope, that as your faith is increased, we shall be greatly enlarged by you in our sphere, to preach the gospel in the regions beyond you, and not to boast in another man’s sphere of accomplishment.

But “he who glories, let him glory in the Lord.” For not he who commends himself is approved, but whom the Lord commends.

~ 2 Corinthians 10.12-17, NKJV

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6 thoughts on “When We Try to Do it All

    1. Thanks! I find this to be especially true in homeschooling. We want so much to make sure our kids don’t miss a single piece of their education. The struggle to juggle is real. 😉

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    1. Thank you, Lynn! I read a lot of children’s literature and I am fascinated by the object lessons tucked away in these simple stories. Even more wonderful is seeing my children spot them! 😊 Thanks for reading and commenting. Go be with you.

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  1. Elihu, this was very timely, thank you. I am one of the most driven people I know, and sometimes I can’t seem to get it under control. I am all about the production, if you know what I mean. I suspect part of it has to do with early life, but that’s another story I suppose. I struggle substantially with just “being,” and I know it impedes the fullness of my relationship with Jesus. Good counsel here.

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    1. I understand exactly what you mean, because I am the same way. The Lord is gently showing me how to trust Him, when to say no (even to some good things), and what is really important. Thank you so much for sharing your insight, brother. May the Lord bless you richly!

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